“I’m not in control of my life. If feels like everyone else is pulling the strings”.

A client Mary (whose name I have changed) said this to me recently, privately, after an online session for my mentorship program the Spiritual Healing Sanctuary. 

I could see the distress in her body and her mind as she expressed these words to me.

I really empathized with what she was saying. I thought to myself, this is such a relatable experience. I have definitely felt like this before. Perhaps you have as well? That feeling of life coming at you, bombarding you, you feel like you are in a tumble dryer and you cannot find your feet. 

This sentence “I’m not in control of my life, and everyone else is pulling the strings” is such a teaching moment for us all. So I am going to break it down now in this newsletter. 

⚡️A feeling such as this alerts me to BOUNDARIES! 

• Mary’s feeling of being at the beck and call of everyone else in her life is a classic symptom of an issue with the energetic structure of her boundaries.
• Boundaries help us perceive and advocate for our own needs. Mary was having difficulty holding this space for herself. 

⚡️ Disconnect from soul and spirit!

• Due to under-functioning boundaries, Mary was experiencing a disconnect from her soul and spirit where they resided deep in the fabric of the body.
• As a consequence, the ability of her spirit to hold an inner space of potential for positivity and change had evaporated and she was feeling hopeless and helpless

⚡️ Lack of energy, motivation and will!

• Spirit is a potent life force and the disconnect Mary was experiencing left her lacking in energy, vitality and motivation.
• Furthermore, not being able to connect with the nourishing presence of her soul had Mary experiencing herself as being of lesser value and worth than other people in her life.
• Consequently, Mary was elevating the needs of others above her own. Her ability to hold a boundary of worth around herself was deeply diminished.

AsubsequentPsychic Spiritual Healing identified that Mary had a big gaping hole in her boundaries.

• Due to this hole, Mary was not generating enough of her worth and value from the inside of her body grounded and centred in her own soul and spirit.
• Instead, Mary was looking to the world around her to validate her worth and this was diminishing her ability to feel like she was in control of her own life.
• In the spiritual healing, we fixed the structural hole in her boundaries and reconnected her relationship with her inner soul and spirit. It is quite incredible to witness the immediate shift in a client after a hole in a boundary is fixed.

What is the solution when your boundaries are under-functioning?

Consider these 3 points when it comes to caring for the structure of your boundaries.

• 💥 Create balance by ensuring you are attuning and attending to your own core needs just as much as the needs of those around you. When you notice this balance is out, adjust it where you can. 

• 💥 As much as you spend time connecting with the outside world around you, spend enough time connecting into the internal spheres of self. This assists you to keep the connection with your soul and spirit within your body healthy and alive. I have a heap of free guided meditations to assist you with this.

• 💥 A hole in your boundaries can oftentimes be fixed by retreating. Spend more time in your inner world, connecting to your soul and spirit, and receiving their love. This retreat into the core of self gives you the opportunity for holes in your boundaries to heal.

HOW CAN I BE OF ASSISTANCE TO YOU RIGHT NOW?

• FREE: I suggest doing the Guided Meditation for Clearing and Protectionon my website's Self Healing Resources Page. CLICK HERE to access the link. Don't forget to bookmark it. 
• FREE QUIZ: What is my spiritual gift? Click here to discover more about how to nurture your spiritual gifts.
• REGISTER "SPIRITUAL HEALING SANCTUARY": Create a grounded relationship to soul and spirit for well-being and personal growth. Register your interest for my next membership intake of the SPIRITUAL HEALING SANCTUARY. Click on the name to discover more about it. Here is the WAITLIST.
• KALI GODDESS SPIRITUAL BREAKTHROUGH ONLINE COURSE: Click here to buy and download this course immediately. Release the old and embrace the new with the help of a kick-arse goddess! Use this code for 50% OFF: "50%OFF"
• HEALING MISTS: I have a range of 5 on my website. Check them out by clicking here. Discover which one is right for you by taking this enlightening quiz here.

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